Posted: 14 Jan 2013 01:32 PM PST Om Shree Ganeshaya Namaha! Om Sai Ram ! Om Namah Shivaya! If for some reason you are not able to see , or download the below pictures or click to the below links and pictures- Plz go to http://debu7370.blogspot.com/ You can also have access to all the previous Shirdi Sai speaks mails at the above link.And if any of you would like to receive these messages directly to your mailbox everyday-- To request for Shri Sai Satcharitra books go to : http://www.saiseva.omsrisai.net/store/index.php For everything else related to Shri Shirdi Sai baba , go to http://debu7366.blogspot.com/ A lot of good relationships often fail becuse one of them or both in that relationship chose not to express themselves either because of their own ego or lack of trust on the other person. I strongly believe that communication is a very big part of any relationship whether that is with your parents, your sibblings, your children or your life patner .. It is equally important to share as much as to listen and respect what the the other person truly feels about any subject.. If you keep secrets or hide behind close doors in any relationship , one day u will definetly feel suffocated in the prision that you created for your ownself..Our life span on this earth is very unpredictible and no one knows the future. So why complicate our life..Learn to express yourself thru your words and actions. Dont take your loved ones for granted and expect them to understand the things you never were able to say.No one is perfect but one can definetly try to bring perfection to our relationships with our loved ones thru communication, respect and love..My funda of life:: Give your family what you expect from them to give you.. Did that ring a bell or should I repeat it once again?? [[hahhaha] Sai bhakt, Deepa H Transform yourself – 25 ways to improve your life this year by Sri Sri Ravishankar For all those who wish to read this from the begining-go to - Click Here 11. Plan short and long-term goals At any given point of time, our mind is oscillating between the past and the future. Either it is angry or sad about the past or anxious about the future. Whatever actions you do in this state of mind, you regret after some time. This is how you get caught up in the same old cycle. Does it mean that you should not plan your future? No! You should plan your short and long-term goals. Then, and only then, life gets a channel, a direction to flow. When the mind is totally in the present, the right planning happens. Not only should you plan your goals, but plan the means and methods to work towards them.Where would you like to see yourself after three years? After 20 years? After 40 years? Don't be feverish about the results. Give your 100 per cent. If you are feverish about the results, it will lead you to disappointment. Do not make a list of all the things you want to achieve. Select few things that really matters. Once a teacher brought a glass jar to the class and a bag with some big stones, some small stones and some sand. He asked the students to put all the contents from the bag into the glass jar. Some students put the sand first, then small stones and by then there was no place for the big stones. The teacher later explained that had they put the bigger stones first, then the smaller stones, there was always space around the stones for all the sand in the bag.This example teaches us an important lesson in prioritising things. If we put things that will give us maximum fulfillment in the long term, smaller things will automatically fall into place. Among all planets in the solar system, the earth is privileged to host life in its many forms, and, among all the species, humans are most privileged, for, they can host knowledge. Again and again you remember that you are peace, you are love, you are joy and that you are hosting the creator. If you do not realise that you are the host, you live like a ghost! Quote of BABA: Let all the senses and mind ever devoted to the Worship of the Lord, let there be no attraction for any other thing; fix this mind in remembering Me always, so it will not wander elsewhere, towards body, wealth home. Then it will be calm, peaceful and care free. This is the sign of the mind being well engaged in good thoughts For all those who somehow missed my mail about India's first mobile application for Women Safety..Tech Mahindra had long back developed an application called Fight Back which was being used only by the staff members of Mahindra Group.After the gang-rape of a woman in New Delhi; Anand Mahindra has now thrown open this smart phone application for public use, beyond Mahindra employees.The FightBack application tracks a user's location and sends SOS messages to selected contacts in case of an emergency.This application is now available for download on the company website for free & is only for Indian numbers.The FightBack app allows the user to press on a panic button whenever he/she feels unsafe.It tracks the location using GPS and alerts chosen contacts about the location map and is available on Android and Blackberry ... www.fightbackmobile.com Here is the link to know more abt it.. Shri Shirdi Sai Speaks-2nd Jan/ India's first mobile application for Women Safety http://t.co/HWLZkl0J Most of us complain about petty problems of our life.No matter how much we have but we still cry about not having that one thing-- that one thing which we know in our hearts that we will not carry with us when we die.. And inspite of that we still end up running behind things that will not matter to us later on - and in that chase we take for granted the happiness and priceless possessions that we already own..We start making our lives miserable by comparing it with others..Forgetting that all what shines is not always Gold. Some run behind Name, Some wish to have Fame, Some want to be a Rich Billionare and Some Run behind Love and Attention.. But we forget that we will carry none of these with ourselves when we die- the only thing that will help us reach closer to God after we die are the blessings which come out from a heart in which God himself lives. I have learned one thing in my life that you get happiness by giving happiness.It is as simple as that.. We all know this fact but we still waste our time in being in the company of greed and insecurities..So my funda of life-- Lets hold on to what God chose for me to have and Let Go of all that which was just not meant for me to have.. Samajne Wale Samaj Gaye Hai-Jo Na Samjhe Woh Anari Hai!!! [ hahaha- ] Sai bhakt, Deepa H |